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I'd like to announce the release of the second edition of A Place to Land. It's in ebook, print, and audio formats. How about that cover?
Link to AmazonShe isn't afraid of the big, bad wolf.
But he's a little concerned about her.
When Uli's impoverished family left Russia for America, she was only 10 years old. From that point on, she's been determined to make the American dream hers. When Headline Magazine offers the perfect story with which to launch her new writing career, Uli travels across Oregon to find out exactly how wolf and cowboy mix. As she finds her spirit guide in the wolf and her soul mate in the cattle rancher, a mysterious danger seems bent on finding her.
Movie-star handsome, Jackson Holt owns one of the largest ranches in eastern Oregon and, like most ranchers, is none too happy with wolves crossing over the Idaho border near his livestock. The last thing he needs is a semi-environmentalist, journalist wannabe dogging his footsteps. Sure, Uli may be bright and sexy, but her need to prove herself and help her family threaten to lead her into the kind of harm he can't protect her from−when all he wants to give her is...a place to land.
Thankfully, my dog didn’t get hurt and I didn’t break anything.
I suffered a black eye. Yet, I didn’t have to wear makeup as the “eye” was all
anyone looked at. My husband thought he’d be blamed for it, poor guy. And a
friend asked if my dog was a boxer.
At my last wellness doctor appointment (before my fall), my
doctor said my weight was okay, but I need to start exercising. I must have
joked about it, or said no or something, because she raised her voice at me.
First time ever.
I exercised when I was younger, using various machines I could
fit into my home. I wasn’t always good about getting it done, but at least I
didn’t forget I’d planned to exercise on a specific day without needing a
reminder. Now, I must write it down, but often at bedtime, I recall that I’d
forgot to exercise. Yes, I wrote it in my calendar, but I forgot to look at my
calendar. I suppose I could move my fitness machine where I could see it, but
then I might fall over it.
Now that I’m older I realized I’d had it wrong about
exercising. I exercised to improve my waistline, which back then was just fine.
Young people are so critical of their bodies, but that is another blogpost. Anyway,
now I need to exercise for a stronger body, especially stronger legs.
Yet, this morning I read a Facebook post that seemed serious
at the beginning but turned out to be humorous. It stated that if you exercise
you will live longer. At age 85 you will have five more months to live in a
nursing home. And then, he said his father walked five miles a day and now at
age 92 he can’t find him.
As I write I am stationary, which doesn’t help accrue daily
steps. But then on second thought, if I
wasn’t a writer, I’d probably be stationary as well. I have deserted an office
and a writing desk to sit in my very comfortable recliner as I write on my
laptop. Why not be comfortable as I write?
No one is going to get me to write anywhere else, I tell you.
I even have a recliner in my summer cabin. So, this fall’s strengthening
program is going to be a goal I will have to work hard at. At least I can read
while I sit on my incumbent exercise bike.
Hats off to all you writers who do get exercise, I admire you.
I plan to be one of you soon. Uh…next week.
Here is the link: 2023 Whispers Anthology
Cover Blurb: A whisper is a soft barely audible sound or resemblance of a sound. Perhaps a thought in one’s head, a flutter of leaves, a feather floating to the ground, or a wish. In this collection of ten stories and a poem the theme of "Whispers" is used in different ways.
From the poem Soul Whispers, from Dari LaRoche, you can conjure up the variety of whispers in the coming stories. This is followed by the Children’s story, Whispers in a Dream, by Susie Slanina, where Metro the dog visits outer space through a dream.
Writers consider many types of human relationships as they start to write a novel. The ins and outs of daily life and how these events affect their character’s life is a major part of what an author states and expands upon.
I have begun my seventh decade in life, so I have seen and learned different sorts of relationship traits, and outcomes, that are especially of interest to me, because I include romance in my fiction writing.
As I’ve watched teen couples over the years, I have seen girls seek to warn or attempt to remove the other girl/woman they found out about, when in fact it is your boyfriend that you need to talk to. What does he want? What if he shows that he doesn’t want to change? Don’t ignore it, thinking you will change him. That is an unhealthy mindset. You won’t. No matter the sadness, move on. The feelings or excitement the two of you have while in the dating period is the best you will probably ever have, so don’t be hanging on the fact that things will get better later.
And guess what? No one is perfect and we all have some kind of baggage, we are still experiencing the residual emotional effects from past situations in our lives that can even go back to our childhood.
One of the hardest things I’ve learned through the years was that once you fail to respect your partner, respect is nigh impossible to get back. A relationship hinges on mutual respect.
A sense of humor is good at every age. There is a quote I like by Dennis Haysbert that says, ‘Sometimes you have to laugh to keep from crying or getting overly angry or to maintain control.’ You indeed have a gift, if you and your spouse can see the humor in a situation and can laugh together (not necessarily in the moment, but soon after), relieving stress.
When I married my husband, I noticed that when we had a disagreement, he would leave the house in a huff. That continued for a while, but then eventually he didn’t leave the house but only went to the garage. Then after more years, he left the conversation by going into another room in the house. Now, after more time, he usually doesn’t leave the discussion (even if I may want him to). Obviously, over the years he learned to trust that I loved him and wanted to work things out. In preparation for this post, I asked him what relationship advice he had, he said, “To be straight up, tell the truth, and it helps everything work out after that.”
Can you have a relationship if you don’t share the same faith? Yes, I think so. We both believe in God but have different ways of showing it. I am totally fine with that, but I would be crushed if my husband didn’t believe in God.
As you grow older you most likely will find that some of the things that bothered you when you were younger don’t upset you anymore. Things you no longer feel are important, which helps not just your life, but your spouse’s life as well. Don’t waste stress on something that is no longer a priority or because someone else thinks you should.
My parents, and my husband’s, are now gone, but alive in our memories. We wished we would have asked them more questions about the past. Also, some of those of our age are ill, and friends and family are starting to pass as well.
I remember an older woman I’d talked to many years ago said, “Now that my husband has passed away, I miss hugs so much.” I thought I knew what that meant back then, but now, over time, I really know what she means. A hug, a touch of a hand, a kiss are appreciated because we know that we will not have that for many more years. Now, kindness and loyalty are the priority. In my long-held opinion, kindness and loyalty are the love story for every age.
Buy link: https://www.amazon.com/Mayas-Gold-Mary-Vine-ebook/dp/B0BRJG7R32